Sarah (25) has just sent in a question.

 

Name: Sarah

Age: 25

Question: Hi! I am thinking about getting geneticly tested (my mum has huntingtons disease). I don't know if I should tell my mum though. She is currently displaying symptoms of the disease and when I hypothetically asked her what she would think if I decided to get tested, becuase I'm getting to the age of thinking about starting a family, she said I was too young and started saying ridiculous statements that didn't make any sense- about how I could just genetically test my child and not me. She did say she would want to know I was doing the test though. I don't know what I should do, to tell my mum I'm going to do the test or not. I'm worried she will break down if it's positive and I'm not sure if she can take it emotionally, because I'm not sure if her thinking is 100%, but is it morally wrong if I don't tel her and I have to live with the guilt of decieving her. This is hard because I've grown up with HD my whole life but it is never talked about, it's almost something that has become shameful, which is sad. I'm worried how my result will impact my immediate family, especially my mum. Sorry this is so long! Thank you.

 

 

 Hi Sarah, this is a difficult issue that a lot of people at risk struggle with when
they are thinking of having the predictive test, whether to tell their parent who has
HD. It is understandable to not want to add stress and worry to a parent, either while
waiting for the result or, as you say, if it is positive. It is not morally wrong to
not tell your parent, because who you tell is completely your decision, and you are
only trying to protect her. On the other hand being open about it can allow you to
receive support, and parents (even with HD) are often stronger than you think. The fact
that your Mum has said she would want to know perhaps indicates that she would be OK.
Regardless of whether you decide to tell her, it is recommended to tell someone in the
family, or a friend, so you have support during the testing. It is not a good idea to
do the test without telling anyone. Regarding telling a parent with HD. obviously there
are pros and cons whichever way, and it would be good to see a genetic counsellor or
social worker in your area who specialises in HD/predictive testing, for a discussion
and counselling on this and other issues, before going ahead with the test.

By the way your Mum was sort of correct when she said you can get your (unborn) child
tested without being tested yourself. There is a technique, called PGD exclusion
testing, which can be done using IVF and preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD) in
which the embryos are created, then tested NOT for the HD gene, but for the chromosome
4 markers that can distinguish which side of the family (on your side) the chromosome 4
has come from. It would require a blood sample from (ideally) both of your parents, as
well as you and your partner. Any embryos that have a chromosome 4 from your Mum's side
of the family would be excluded ie not used to start a pregnancy, as there is a 50%
chance that that chromosome has the HD gene. So that way you can be confident that the
child will not have the HD gene, while not having to find out whether you have the HD
gene. You can get more information about the PGD process from the website of Sydney IVF
- www.sydneyivf.com

I hope this information is helpful and I would encourage you to contact your local
genetic counselling service for help to sort out your dilemma.

Regards,

Fiona

Also sarah you may find it useful to talk to other young people on www.hdaustralia.org