Asked by Meg (15)

 

Hi Meg,
Thanks very much for your question, it is important to have someone that you feel comfortable to talk with, and your Mum doesn't have to know. I am not sure what the procedure is at your school for arranging to talk with the chaplain, but if you can't ask him directly about a time to meet with him, maybe you could ask one of the teachers that you feel comfortable with, or your year coordinator, to arrange an appointment for you. You don't have to tell them why you want to speak with the chaplain - that can be just between you and him. Most schools also have a school counsellor who you can talk with confidentially, that is, without your parent having to know. Also, depending which country town you are in, there may be a genetic counsellor that you could see in your town, but it might be easier to meet with the school chaplain or school counsellor first, then they could find out for you (by contacting me or Michelle) if there is a genetic counsellor close by, and contact them for you if you would like this. Please send another question if this answer is not what you are looking for, and we will keep trying to help.
Best wishes,
Fiona