Name: kathy
Age: 35
Question: My father has been diagnosed with HD. He is 63 and is quite often mentally and occasionally physically abusive towards my mother who is his carer. She is at the end of her tether and we were trying to give her some respite by having him stay with my sister but he managed to get home and will not stay with her. We have run out of solutions. What can we do that will be best for my father and mother.
Hi Kathy,
It sounds like you are dealing with a very difficult situation for the whole family and
particularly for your mother. It is definitely a situation for which you need
professional assistance, preferably from a specialised HD service. There may be
medication that can modify your father's abusive behaviour, and a specialist and social
worker may be able to arrange some residential respite care to give your mother a break
and to do a thorough assessment of your father's behaviour and moods. Sometimes it
takes a bit of trial and error to get something that works, which is frustrating for
all concerned. If you are already in contact with an HD service I would encourage you
to let them know of this latest development. But if you are not linked to an HD service
you need to contact the HD Association in your state and ask who you can be referred to
for assistance.
I hope this is of some help.
Fiona




